Give the Gift of Healthy Love for Christmas...and Beyond. Want to give your spouse a gift that will keep on giving beyond Christmas Day? Then give the gift of healthy romantic love. How?I am so glad you asked! In an article entitled “The 3 Core Skills that Every Person Needs for Healthy Romantic Relationships” Dr. Joanne Davila has identified 3 skills for healthy romantic love: Insight, Mutuality and Emotional Regulation. What is so exciting is that all three of these skills are skills we are called to practice in our Christian lives!